IDK - but that is sure what it feels like maybe. Then if it comes during a time when we are doing serious work, we are so exposed that having the other person show a sign of being deceptive is maybe deeply triggering. That feels right. There we are all exposed and honest with who we are but the other person is litterally lying through their teeth in our face. Odd. I wrote that out of the blue in just replying back to you and I can feel the anger rushing into me along with the desire to slam that door shut hard!