Sorry for the way your day went. I have to wonder if your husband had a moment in time where he was just "talking to his wife" like any husband would, just discussing rhetoric about the world in general wherein he had a moment just with "you" WITHOUT your illness "listening in".......the thought came to my mind that maybe your husband really tries to maintain a supportive and caring posture with you but may, at times simply want to express how he feels about something without measuring his words for fear of hurting you. It could be that he honestly did not think about how you might hear those words and then it "hit" him after he said it and followed it up with, "you have a ways to go..." then again...I don't know your dynamics with your hubby and as tough as it is for you...I bet it's tough for him at times too to always be on guard with his words so he doesn't hurt you....he's still just a human and he will make his mistakes. Unless he's a real jerk, I can't imagine he would ever intentionally say or do anything to hurt you on purpose. Only you could know the answer to that. From what you say, he's always been pretty supportive of you and understanding...he may have just been thinking out loud and didn't realize how what he said would sound to you. Maybe you can give him benefit of doubt...although, I can understand why you would feel as you do....be well and I wish the very very best for both you and your husband....