I feel really bad about this but the other T ...we emailed him today and got a message back--he can see us in evenings after work or weekends... I told him outright that I have DID and don't see it as a disorder, have no desire for us to integrate, just need a T while my T is out of town. He said to call at my convenience... i dont know though. I feel really cruddy even considering seeing another T while mine is gone. We just want HER back!! I know the inside kids will have a FIT if they end up in his office. Plus we are so afraid of men. I dont know what to do. I suppose I will call and just talk to him about what's going on... i feel lousy though My T did suggest the other night, do you want to see someone else while I'm gone? I dont even want to tell her if I do. It feels like cheating on her. My T and I are so close. I dont want to get into any of the trauma stuff with another person. We just need someone to help us cope while T is gone.