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Ah yes...reading your post made me realize one of the reasons why I don't want a romantic relationship. Didn't your wife realize that you had SPD when you got married? No offense to her, but if she DID know this, she should have been prepared to live with it. I certainly hope she didn't expect to marry you, and then change you. Because that never works.

Personally, I don't see how you two can have a lasting, (happy) marriage if you are the way you are, and she can't accept that. Indeed, it does seem like you are more like roommates, and less like spouses.

I don't think it's fair of her to try and change you, but that's my opinion. I do apologize if my reply has been too blunt...but it's just how I feel regarding this situation. I wish you the best of luck.