((((((((((((Patricia))))))))))) Best advice I have is YOU go your own pace hon. It's like you said you are missing the tools to deal with what happened. If your in some form of therapy you will eventually learn what is best for you to deal with this. It takes time and sometimes it is best to go a slower pace then too just jump right in.
BIG HUGS!
Cher
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