Well don't give up whatever you do. My compulsions pretty much went away except for a few things. When i first started going through it though you literally cannot stop doing the rituals. It seems impossible. I know it's hard. But your little girl is still herself and will continue to grow up wether she has OCD or not. So that's one good way of looking at it. In time in sure it will get better. I do know you can't be forceful about telling her they're illogical. For me when my dad did that it just made me upset. It's tough for you but it's even harder for her. It's a terrible thing. I wouldnt wish anxiety and OCD on anyone.