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Originally Posted by salukigirl
Your wording is what bothers me. You asked how can you make her realize you have changed? You can't make her do/see/realize anything. Like you said, actions are what shows change. However, it's really easy to change for a week. She might not want to stick around long enough to see if the change is real. And again, there isn't anything you can do about that.
PityPatyof1 - I don't know where you came up with anything about cheating or whatever? How is wanting space disrespectful? If he cares about her then yes, he feels like he is losing something.
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I understand. But when we had our last discussion over a coffee a few days ago. I asked her if I should ship her stuff to her and she smiled and said "don't be so worried about it", which I have no clue what it means. If she was truly done with me, would she not want me to send her stuff back without having any contact with me? During that meeting, she also said that she wants to have a proper discussion with me when we are back home. What ever that means once again. We didn't really discuss why she didn't want to be in a relationship right now, as she said she just wants to enjoy her last week here. We only have 3 more days here and then we will be back home.
Is there a hidden meaning behind these or should I just take them at face value? I want to show her what I mean by actions and I need her to give me a chance to show her this. We honestly have so much in common that it feels amazing being with her. Minus the last few mistakes that we have made, everything is amazing.
Should I just give her the space and wait for her to contact me so we can have this proper discussion?
Thanks.