I hope it doesn't backfire either. The suspicious, skeptical side of me wonders if she's trying to get info out of me that they could spin to make me look bad.

She's the only woman in her work office, and she lives out in the middle of nowhere now instead of in town where her sister and cousin were close by. Maybe she is sick of being the only woman with a houseful of men since my daughter is only there 8 nights a month now.