We can never change the unfair actions of others. We survived and we have to learn how to not feed into our pasts. Oh, I know it is hard, I am also trying to overcome many things myself. But I am really trying to make sure that I don't give into it. Often we can allow ourselves to feed into it. We have to learn to catch it and make conscious changes to consistently tell ourselves we are going to continue to recover and live out our lives. And I am in no way telling anyone here to just get over it, I know none of us want to hear that, because it is not that simple. But I am making efforts to pay attention to my thoughts and do everything I can to make efforts to
try my best to not feed into them, I am not saying it is easy, it is a very personal effort and all we can do is our best to make our own efforts and support those who are also challenged to do the same.

(((((Hugs)))))

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