Thanks stormy I really appreciate your response...I actually got teary eyed...Yeah I'm a little worried about letting her have a whole session, because as of now she barely arrives...and it's intense when she does...so I think you are right the best way is to talk to T about this desire...and see what happens...because she gets so incredibly hurt and is so sensitive to everything he says and does, and when it's time to leave-sometimes she will get so upset-it comes out as anger-T knows this and he comforts her...but if she really let it out...it would be soo bad...she would throw the biggest tantrum ever, making T stay with her...and I can't let that happen...thanks again Stormy