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Old Dec 12, 2011, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Perna View Post
Other people's expression of anger is an attempt at communication with me, not a threat to me and my safety.
This stopped me cold! Anger from the parent usually means stop doing that right now or else pain - that is what is being "communicated". But you're right, we're not children anymore. Anger does not have to be scary, does not have to carry a threat. It can just tell, convey a feeling. This is so beautiful. Thanks, Perna.
Thanks for this!
Dr.Muffin