I feel really offended and hurt when I perceive my husband as brushing me off, but really I'm just not clear enough to him about my intentions. I will assume that if I kiss him a certain way, he'll know I'm in the mood. And then I'll get upset when I'm not in the mood and kiss him, and he thinks I'm all go! It's all just communication, and I think that could be your case too. Men aren't mind readers!

If you can't stand the thought of being straightforward and saying "I want sex, now!" (which totally ruins the mood, I know) then try being blatant in other ways. Have candles burning and a sexy little nightgown on when he comes home, or take dirty pictures and text them to his phone, tell him you're waiting for him, etc. He'll get the picture and be more than willing to step up to the plate.