Hello, Clouds_and_Sun!
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Originally Posted by clouds_and_sun
My father would always say that I am a very boring person...
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Originally Posted by clouds_and_sun
I guess it is cause I am boring or something.
I try to be interesting to my online friends even my one friend (I have known her for many years) seems bored with me at times.
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I'm sensing a "parental tape/recording" is playing itself over and over again in your mind. Did your father program you to regard yourself as boring? If he did, your mind is all keyed up to read all sorts of things as "evidence" of being boring, whether or not that evidence is substantive.
It would be great if we could just turn off those recordings, but it's not that easy. Childhood programming runs very deep. And, certainly, I may be reading too much into what I've seen in your posts.
Please keep posting, Clouds_and_Sun. What bothers you is important here.
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