Also I feel the therapist is being presumptive that my depression stems from my family. I had issues before I took responsibility for them. I happened to have been stable for about a year on certain medication and now I have the symptoms again, and need to fight through my issues as far as living and getting through the day, and stuff about me (how I got to be me what are my flaws how do I change them what are my gifts how do I strengthen them, what are the tools in my toolbox so to speak to live the life I want. What are my liabilities, etc) That I think is where I want my focus. I want to learn why I do the things I do in order to try to change what I don't like about myself. I suppose that is a goal in itself.