Ok - its done - I called and set up an EMERGENCY Intake for tomorrow - in a diff. county as the Intake Officer goes to a diff. county each day. I will be filing for Custody. I learned today Mommy Dearest hadnt gotten the prescriptions filled as of 2:00 today and she had to leave for work at 4:00 and lives 30 miles from a Pharmacy. I also called the friend in the ER and told her about this.

I am more than disappointed in my son - and I HAVE read the best book - "When Our Adult Children Disappoint Us" ! I painted at his new house today for 3 hours and he fussed at me for doing the trim before he did the walls instead of being grateful I did anything. The carpet will be laid THIS Friday - to me, having the baseboards painted is more impt than walls at this point . I dont know what is wrong with him. Before this "witch" entered his life, he had never shown bad judgement, and has always loved children. I have no clue what is going on with him, but once I get thru with making sure the baby is taken care of - I am going to see if I can get HIM into some therapy.....he obviously needs it. I know many many times when things were bad with him and wife, he would say "Mom, you just have NO CLUE what my life is like, please understand that I am trying my best". I know things have been horrible, and he has been afraid of his wife on many ocassions (he is a BIG man and she is small - but he has never hit a woman, and thank goodness for that - cause sometimes I think that is just what she is waiting for ! ). My heart is broken for my son getting into this situation, and more so, that he is not stepping up to the plate and being a good parent.

I will keep you posted. Boppers - I sent u some offlines - I just havent been on puter much with so much going on......I miss u too - and will chat with u soon.

Thanks all for your thoughts and support.