I am at my wits end.I & my wife have her 21 yr old daughter whom just had a baby & her disrespectful jerk of a boyfriend.I had no say in either.The daughter came about 9 months ago then the boyfriend about 3 months ago.last night after an argument with him because every time I turn around he puts my dog outside.I finally had enough of it I told him to stop & that if I want him out I'll put him out.Iwas told that he doesn't want his daughter on a carpet where a dog has been.I told him it's my house & if he doesn't want to be around the dog then he can go to "his"room & close the door.He even tried to get me to fight him but I know how I am & it would have gotten out of control so I was the adult & just told him he doesn't know who he's messing with & walked away .When my wife came home from work I told her either he goes or I do & that I am tired of feeling like an unwanted guest in my own home.She told me that she does not want upset her daughter.I guess it's ok That I am on the brink of a nervous breakdown.I am tired of walking on eggshell and being resentful all thr time.It seems like my feelings usually get trumped by someone elses,I told her that I am going to leave because it's better to be alone & sane then together & miserable.I feel totally betrayed & abandoned and I must admit pretty pissed off.I feel like a grown man should have peace in his own house.Am I crazy & just being shelfish?I am scared about being alone again but like I said at least I won't be disrespected anymore & have a little peace.Sometimes enough is enough especially when one starts feeling suicidal over it.I guess I have to do what it takes to take care of my sanity.Anyfeedback appreciated.