That IS great, lost. Hey stopdog,
1. what exactly does your T say about this mistake?
2. Is this likely ever to get resolved?
3. Is there something she expects you to "learn" before she will give in, like when I had to learn that "other people are important, too!" before I could "win" a speech at my Dale Carnegie classes?
4. Do you talk about what it would mean for you to give in?
5. Is your therapy able to proceed without this being resolved?
6. Is she aware of how big an issue it is for you?
Sorry I'm being so nosy, you just work so hard at this, hanging out here, etc, I don't know if these questions help at this point, you know you totally don't have to answer them.