I guess I dont like having my SI just being pushed off onto "well she is just doing it because she is borderline" which is not true. I want help for it but it seems like he just attributes it to something I dont have and wont revisit the subject again. Im kind of stuck on what I should do.

How do I bring it back up to him without it looking like I want attention or having him just saying Im doing it becuase Im borderline?