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Originally Posted by CantExplain
All the feelings you mention here seem perfectly normal. And even if they weren't, they are your feelings.
FANTASY:
You: I love you.
T: Thank you! That's good to know.
Is your T perhaps young and inexperienced and overreliant on doing things by the book?
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Hi Can't Exlain,
No, my t isn't new. She has been a t for over 20 years. The scenario that seems to play out is that either she will express her caring in a very meaningful way, or i will -- and then right afterward, she'll "back up" some. I'm very perceptive and always notice the "backing up" part and it hurts my feelings, though she never admits that she has indeed backed up.