"he's stimulated in an unpleasant way".

ok this would have bothered me me too...maybe if he had just said..look some of your stuff bugs the crap out of me...it would have been better (doubt it but..i would be really stressed if my t said this to me. so you are not alone on this one.

what do i do that bugs you? what type of reaction?
MY reaction to this statement would be to totally close up & say nothing...because while i want honestly i also want to know what it is i do that bothers you so i can fix it.

gotta tell you that statement just really irks me...or i guess stimulates me in a majorly unpleasant way...to use his words.