well, now it is official. I have lost no1 daughter to state care, and will not even be allowed to have her stay overnight for months...yes, months. This is what I have always feared, and today it has come true. Apparently it is not because I am a 'bad parent' because apparently I am a 'good parent'. It is because she is such a difficult child that not even her father could deal with both girls on his own for 3 hours, and becoz they don't want me ending up a total mess. I did try to tell them that by doing this it is the whole reason I will end up a total mess, but they don't see it that way. I don't even know which forum to put this in. I figured that relationships would be the best, as it is the relationship between me and no1...