i agree with dusty9838, he's right on the money.
correct me if i am wrong, i think you posted something that your hubby doesn't want to go to marriage couseling with you, what was the reason for that?
if its money issues, look into your local churches that had sessions about marriage repair.
to ignore you like that, and WHAT he had a pic of this woman in her underwear!?!?!?!
honey i have been married for over 23 years, my hubby never ever did this to me, and if he had, i would ask him to leave.
you deserve better, you deserve respect, you deserve a partner that loves you unconditionally, you deserve communication, you deserve emotional support, as well as physical too.
keep us posted