I think your husband doesn't want you there on line of he couldn't so blatently open links like that or make the comments he probably makes to the girls.......sounds like he's pushing you away because he wants his freedom to be & do what he wants online.

Porn & even having online relationships with others in a sexual tone is cheating on your marriage & he knows he couldn't get away with it if you were there. He's making you feel horrible about yourself to keep you from making him feel horrible about what he's doing.

I personally wouldn't tolerate it.......shoot....you are without a car so he could have the business equipment to start HIS business & then he treats you this way......no way.....I would make him start paying me back the money from your car from his business to start with & set down some rules.

The picture in the underware is more significant & more of a problem.....& is just indicating where your husband's mind is heading rather than keeping it in his marriage. I know you don't want to give up your marriage....you love him......but it's obvious the feeling isn't mutual.

I left my husband for other reasons because he wasn't responsible & I couldn't trust him to take care of me & in the process realize that I never had loved him from before we were married 33 years before because I never respected his values & our marriage was nothing but constant fighting from the beginning because I wouldn't tolerate his crap. We are still married, but I left 4 years ago now & had no money to go back & get my things. Starting over 2100 miles away has been a challenge......but we don't have to put up with being treated poorly by a husband.

Yea, your sex might be ok.....he has needs also.....so that's really not an indication of the status of a marriage.....& at this point isn't satisfying himself with the porn........who knows what the future holds if it's only been 6 months & he's at this point?????

Your marriage is definitely in a bad place & it's your husband who is making it that way....it's not you being boring or being embarrassed by you that's causing it....it's his excuse & putting the blame on you so that he doesn't have to be held responsible for being in the wrong & causing the marriage to fail.