If y'all can plz let me know what y'all wpuld do that would be great!! I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years know. I'm 25 and he's 27. We have have a lot of ups and a few downs. But this past years has been crazy. I was accepted in the program at school ( collage ) in the summer. One night I was very stressed out about how I was going to pay my books. And all he seas don't worry about it. Cuz the day u graduate will be the day u get a ring!!! It shocked me. But I would go along with it. In jun came over and he needed a brake. Becose his little brother was getting married and he wanted more time with him. He also felt preshered by his family to get married. So he wanted a brake. In aug we kinda fixed things and he asked me to invite my family to the wedding to both family's can meet. I was so confused. But ok!!! Then in oct I got a really funny filling so I went to go surprise him at home one night. Long story short there was a girl there. He promises nothing went on but I'm not to sure. He is my first love. I'm very confused. I don't want to be that girl. You know!!! So what do y'all think do I stay!!! Or go!!! What would y'all do??