And I thought the guys *I* dated were a$$holes! Geeze!

I'm so sorry, Jan. I wish I could do more to help. Do you have a restraining order, or can you get one? My memory isn't the best these days, so please forgive me if you've answered this one somewhere already.

I know how horrible it is not to be able to get away from an abuser. A parent was mine, and I am 41 y/o and still can't get away, psychologically, anyway.

Let me know if there is anything concrete I can do for you -- make phone calls or whatever.

Love, Candy