so is it wrong then to be a non-conformist? is that seen as a person who manipulates more than others?

i find that speaking out & challenging others to think outside the "box" upsets people here...& somewhat outside pc...but speaking for here...i don;'t want or need cyber hugs..they don't help me when i am in need of support...

i try to offer valid info for people that they can use & yet i tend to get shot down at times because it isn't hand holding let me dab the tears for you stuff...

sorry so not my style...i enjoy challenging someone to think about solutions...not to wallow & act....perhaps that is manipulation but dabbing cyber tears can only do so much..at some point you have to get up & fix yourself...