I'm angry about my workplace & tend to get angrier every time I go in. I am told I am not a team player, & I'm probably not. Most of my life I've worked for myself. Now I work for a state college & a city library: servant of two masters. Asking for trouble, no doubt.

I think they intend to anger me. I seem to be the spokesman for the group. I make a pitch, for compromise. They come to me, quietly, & offer me a deal in which I get everything I want. Nothing for the others.

This isn't supposed to make me angrier? My getting angrier means I'm not a team player?

I keep my mouth shut & my finger/mouse off the "Send" button when I'm angry. I take no action till I have (1) passed it by someone wiser than I & (2) waited until the next day. That's the best I can do so far.
I'm thrilled for you, notz. May you have a prolonged case of amazement--if you're up to it.