Sorry to hear that.
we have had sezuires all of our life, just localized ones. then lately we've been having bad once. not too often do we get migranes but we do get headaches and very sleepy when we been doing more than just exisiting such as talking or trying to help eachother.
I would def try to give the med a try. even if its just to take care of the symptom (we take excedrin migrane and it helps). but I would definantly also get a second opinnon on both sides of the health realms.
Because if this stuff is caused by physical health, it needs to be tended by that, but if it's caused by mental health, it needs to be taken care by the mental health system...
I do know a lot of health issues can cause mental issues. but once the health issue is taken care, so is the mental issue.
The fact you feel like you aren't being heard, or listened to, and taken seriously, if it were happening to me, I would find someone else to listen. and atleast test just to reassure your mind, and put you at ease, even if they are right. If they listen and validate you, and do the approriate tests. and find out it's more than just migranes or sezuires then atleast they did their job! Their job is to help you! and it's to make sure they have the right diagnose on you! They work for you! you pay them! (even if you have insurance, you still pay them, if you dont go to them they dont get paid for you).
I would suggest the IDEAL situation would be to go see a mirgraine specialist, and see a DID pdoc specialtis and see what both say,
sezuries and migranes are a ... hard thing to figure out what the cause is from.. because it could be due to your mental health, or your physical health, and it's diffficult to figure it out, but they do in most instances... sometimes its due to both. or due to certain meds....