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Originally Posted by Straywolf
Yeah. I have to admit the "You have it so much better than most people" Is a dangerous one. It only makes me feel worse. So, not only am I depressed but ungrateful too? O_O
Sometimes, nothing even needs to be said at all, you just need a listening ear.
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Ohhh. SO true! I've had people sit down with me and try to reason me out of my feelings. After a few minutes, when I'm still depressed and not turning cartwheels for joy because they made me feel better, they get frustrated. Then comes a heavy sigh, and stomping away in anger. They'll say to the next person in line, "I give up. She's impossible. YOU talk to her!"
I don't need somebody to "talk" to me, dipstick. I need somebody to "hear" me.