*Lots of hugs*!!

That can be pretty rough, when the host doesn't want to share or compromise...
Is there a way this can be brought up to the T?

Maybe certain times of the day or night an agreement can be reached to where that time is when someone gets to come out. And the host may be nervous about all at once, so if maybe between a two hour period, all who come out must promise to not harm, or to stay in a safety zone at first?
The host may feel overwhelmed that there are so many of you, or feel out of control, maybe at the beginning only one can come out that would reassure her everything will go as agreed, then slowly work from there with the host? The host may be feeling scared as well. Perhaps the host would agree to overshadow and let one out while the host is overshadowing, and has the ability to regain control as soon as she wants?
I know it's not very ideal or quick, but maybe the host would be willing to compromise if things went slower, and knew just what to expect.

There's quite a few here, some we dont even know of. Some want out, while others dont. all want out usually all at the same time. Usually the littles want out for instant wants not caring about who asked first or who said first... some want nothing to do with coming out. and others want out. but usually dont stay long.

im sorry, our head is really hazy today.. we are sick we think. but we wanted you to know that we care for all of you, and hope you can all be content