Wow, what a mess. It's hard to be the bigger person than your parent, isn't it? I agree with everyone else, lean on your good friends and stay out of your dad's toxic household. Great job on reaching out to a friend when you needed it - it can be tough to do, but we're all glad you did (and are still here!)

I'm glad you have somewhere else to go - will you be able to stay with your mum, or will you have to find another place to live before long?