Jan
I'm so sorry you had that happen to you. You did right to hang up on him. Can you get a phone with caller ID? Maybe there is some kind of Victim Support charity which will help you fund that? Then you would be able to screen your calls and onlly take them if you knew who was calling. I hope the Violence counselor is able to help.

I can understand your fear. I hope you are able to overcome it - you are a strong person and you do not deserve what you have ahd to go through.