How do i know if i really have mental issues before going tho the doctor? I was molested by family members at a young age. I had to raise my younger brothers on my own, I dropped from school because I was pregnant and we are married and still together with 4 girls ages 10, 14, 20 and 23. I was 15 when I had the first. I was into drinking and drugs from 10-14. My husband is now disabled with Epilepsy and Degerative Disk Disease in his neck. I have pains that come and go but seems there may not really be pain there just in my head, I am the one that does everything around the house because my husband just cant do much anymore before having a seizure I am feeling like I am depressed.. my 20 yr old was diagnosed probably BPD and it may have come from a parent which this is what I though I may have. HELP!!!