I apologize for not understanding your position. I'm very sorry for not paying better attention. Since this is a recent thing, maybe just wait it out a bit longer to see if his fascination with his online friends wears off a bit. Sometimes couples just need some time on their own...online, playing sports, having outside friends. I think some of us are just concerned at your level of pain and want to let you know that we'd be upset by the situation as well. You're not crazy to be hurt or concerned by his behavior, that's all.

I'm curious about something that is not related to your husband at all...You said that "It always makes me nervous when someone says I did a good job." Maybe you'd feel comfortable talking a bit more about that?