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Originally Posted by lido78
I apologize for not understanding your position. I'm very sorry for not paying better attention. Since this is a recent thing, maybe just wait it out a bit longer to see if his fascination with his online friends wears off a bit. Sometimes couples just need some time on their own...online, playing sports, having outside friends. I think some of us are just concerned at your level of pain and want to let you know that we'd be upset by the situation as well. You're not crazy to be hurt or concerned by his behavior, that's all.
I'm curious about something that is not related to your husband at all...You said that "It always makes me nervous when someone says I did a good job." Maybe you'd feel comfortable talking a bit more about that?
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Like yesterday a lady at work said I understand the scheduling system as much as she does. She is the head of the scheduling system training department and my superiors are attempting to make an upheaval that will be disasterious but they tell me I'm being negative. So this trainer was trying to set up a meeting so everyone would understand and for sure wanted me at the meeting. But my superiors do not want me at the meeting because they think I'm a terrible employee and completely incompitent. So after my being told I do a good job it was instantly changed to I do a horrible job. That's why.