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Old Dec 15, 2011, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by lido78 View Post
Hmmm...sounds as if you are seeing some potential problems, and they're not being open minded enough to shift gears to honestly look at the issues you're concerned with. I've had that problem at work myself but tried to change my approach a bit to be less negative and make it sound more like I wanted things to be as good as possible by suggesting some additional things they could think about...If they ignore my suggestions, it's kind of their problem, not mine, right?
Actually the lady that validated my concerns told me I wasn't being negative at all, just logical and realistic. You see, I have not been considered intelligant at my job for over two years, and anyone who validates me is quickly silenced. You may think this is paranoia, but sadly it isn't. I was a fool and informed my superiors of my biplar when I was diagnosed, thinking that I could get some accomidations due to worsening problems I am having with my illness. Instead it put a huge target on my back. I'm written up regularly for problems that are directly resulted of my illness, which I keep a record of all these things in my medicle chart. So, my stress level is very high, and I'm always just waiting for the shoe to drop.... That's just life.
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