For everyone it is different...
I don't think there is one answer for that. Why not work on your healing and then your questions will be answered that are around you and not what other people are feeling. I don't mean to sound rude, to me that sounds rude.
Integration is something that is at the very end of your healing and it is personal to each and everyone.
With DID, healing from it and sharing each of our expeirences will all be different but similar.
I wish you

in your healing and I do wish you the best.
Crew