Hello all,
This is only my second post - first being in introductions. I really need to get some outside input because my own thoughts are spinning right now.
My husband of 4 years (1 child, 3 yrs old) is 3 years sober. Cocaine was his drug of choice but also alcohol. I just saw our latest bank statement and discovered 2 separate withdraws on the same date at a strip club. It didn't state the time, but I'm guessing it must have been during work because I don't remember any unaccounted time in the evening when he normally would have been home. The total amount was $140. For us, this is A LOT of money. He does the banking and we have 2 accounts - one I primarily use and one he does. This was from his account. Money was tight this month but we just moved so I thought that was why.
Here's where my mind is spinning...Is he using again? Drinking or drugs? Both? Why is he hanging out a strip club? This is not normal behavior (or maybe it is and he's kept it hidden?? He was VERY good at keeping the drugs hidden before.) I don't know where to go with this or what to do. I feel like I my emotions are out of control right now.
Any input would be GREATLY appreciate it.
Thank you.