Hugs to you nat92! I second Severijn's suggestions. I have found so much help by reading good books on the subject, and it's an ongoing thing, I turn to books for help all the time because there is so much to learn-but do keep in mind that not all the books are helpful, so don't get discouraged if you read one that is not good, put it down and pick up the next one. the library is indeed a good place to start!