I agree, JLarissaDragon. I've been thinking a lot about it (pretty hard not to) and it sounds like trouble to me too. If this was a case of boys being boys, why the secrecy? And why go back to one of his old haunts? This is not a high-class club by any stretch of the imagination. It is a seedy, dirty, hidden place. Exactly what you might imagine when you think of a nasty strip club where there is a lot of drug use.
I am so anxious about this...about when to confront him. I don't want to go into the weekend if we have this discussion and it goes badly. On the other hand, I don't know how long I can keep it to myself for either.
Thank you to everyone. Knowing there are people out there to whom I can express my feelings and get feedback and support is helping me keep my sanity and stay strong.