I've never had a word for it, but I sure had the fallout. The worst came when I was younger. By the time I was through college I'd come to dread the fallout so much that I was able to fight off/get away before bringing disaster down most of the time, but the stress & overall cost was frightful. The mood stabilizer I got for the first time in hospital about 3 yrs ago ended all that for the most part.

I'd say any event ending crying in a closet counts as ________ (pick your label). I'd suggest a trial on the med, & from what you say I'd definitely talk with pdoc about officially adding bf as an observer to your team. JMHO, of course ... no professional standing.

Take care, keep coming back, never give up on yourself.