But we have always been able to give hugs. ((((hugs )))))

In the UK we have store cards where you collect points and rewards and I have never had one as for me it turns life into some sort of game - how many points can you collect and the more you have the greater you are doing. I feel that about the hug icon too and for me when I see it I can get a guilt trip of not presenting as warm and supportive. I struggle alot with hugging in real life (T has never got within 6 feet of me) and this even translates to here - but I guess some people find it useful.

Thanks for the tip of how to get rid of it though - hmmm wonder if I can face removing mine - maybe message those where I take it back and explain why I am removing it.