My T is really quite talented at winding things down, generally. Only a couple of times have we gone over. And twice, I've left feeling incredibly shaky and horrible. After the second time, I told him about it, and when we had about ten minutes left of that session, he asked me what he could do so that I wouldn't have that feeling after the session. I asked him if he would touch me so I would feel like he didn't think I was gross and repulsive, and then immediately freaked inside my head thinking that HE would think I meant something creepy, but he didn't take it in a creepy way. He just gently asked if it was okay if he hugged me. I adore him.