Hi Alice,

I agree with Rainbowzz. Unfortunately, sometimes people take their problems out on us. And it's nothing we did wrong. That's hard to understand and it makes us feel bad. From your posting, I don't see how you could be bad? You seem very nice and loving and caring, that's the kind of person who gets "targetted" the most. But DON'T CHANGE! It's the other persons unhealthy behavior, not yours.

Could you talk to C's T about it? If you don't feel safe enough to do that, I bet it would be okay if you slip him a note. I know Daisy does that sometimes.

Lots of Hugs,

SongBird