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Originally Posted by SoFragile88
Sitting here feeling so inadequate trying to figure out what is wrong with me. The person I need the most in my life is my mom & I don't have her..never had her. She has 4 girls & she's only a mother to 2...I'm not one of them. My heart is broken & has the biggest hole that can't be filled. I'm starting to wonder if it will ever be filled.
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It's clear that you'll never be good enough for your mother, and your mother will never fill the hole. As long as you keep looking for love
there, you wll never be happy.
But
other people in your life probably love you more than you think.
When I was depressed, I kept looking for evidence that I wasn't loved. And of course if I looked hard enough, I always found it. When I started looking for evidence that I
was loved, I found that too.
It's a "cognitive distortion" thing.