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I have never lost someone so close before, infact i've never lost anyone at all.
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. It's so hard to love a loved one especially a parent. You think they will always be there and when they pass on it is a total shock to one's system. I'm also very sorry you don't have a support system. I understand where you are coming from. When I lost my mother, I felt the same way. I also was not that close to my siblings and I also felt that most people did not really care as much as I would have liked. (But I also did some looking inward and I understood why) still, it is a double whammy to discover that when you are grieving.
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Well, he stood me up. No call, no text, nothing. I texted him, no response. I'm SO hurt by that as well. Made me feel like I'm nothing at all. No one cares what I'm going through, especially since i had told him i lost my father.
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Oh yes, that is so very hurtful. I don't know why people do that to each other. I have found more and more that some people don't think twice about letting others down or not following through on their word. In fact it seems to be the norm nowadays, sad to say. I'm sorry that guy did that to you. But please don't take that as being a reflection of your self-worth.
I wish I had more helpful things to say. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone and that I understand.