And that's why men will say, fine, I give up, you're right. But inside they're saying, I will never open up about my FEEEEELINGS again! Do we have any beverages brewed from hops?

I'm sorry I couldn't help you see this point of view. I think Alcinus had a valid point, regardless of how "enforceable" it is. Therapy is also a "phony" situation, like a movie, but we suspend belief in these situations. Unless you believe Superman can really fly!