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Old Dec 17, 2011, 08:50 PM
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how i handled negative thoughts about myself was to keep on hand some positive things i could not dispute to be true. like i am an excellent writer. (not that it shows in my posts, i am lazy here, but professionally i am known for writing excellent reports) so no matter how down on myself i got, i could always turn it around by focusing on the fact that was an excellent writer or that my boss really appreciated me. these were facts i could not dispute. so even though you feel you are a drain on everyone,you can focus on the fact that you are a value and asset to these concerts you give. you bring joy to the people that come see them.

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