Thread: Seeing old T??
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Old Dec 17, 2011, 11:26 PM
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The advantage of seeing old T is that she has your whole CSA history and could more quickly resolve the issues you are dealing with at the moment.

the disadvantage of going to marriage T for individual counseling is this would alter the balance of the relationship she has with you. would your husband begin questioning if she is on your side more because she knows you better, sees you more. gives you special treatment becuase you are going thru difficult issues. it is something that you have to consider.

it sounds like you had a great relationship with old T. she may not be taking new patients but you are not new. from wht you have written i dont think that you would be in therapy for very long if you are fearing getting attached. it sounds like you just need a tuneup.

maybe you could talk to marriage T about your feelings regarding this matter and she can help you sort out what would be best for you.

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