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Dec 18, 2011, 05:12 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I'm glad you're going into therapy. I'm SURE it will help you get thru this.
It's only natural that you would be gun-shy after having something like this happen. But don't let it sour you for future relationships --- not EVERY woman is like that, thank goodness! LOL You'll find a woman who is trustworthy & faithful -- just make sure you don't look for someone just like your ex!! Sometimes we do that, and it just make for more trouble. 
Give yourself some time to heal -- don't jump into a new relationship soon. After a 10 year relationship, I'd surely stay "single" for at least a year -- that doesn't mean you can't date tho.
God bless & take care of yourself. Hugs, Lee
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